Just venting.

I just really wish I could pick Mike's Mom's brain to figure out why she isn't ever wanting to see Katie. It really is her own loss, but it sucks so much that Katelynn has a grandma that lives IN TOWN, but just doesn't ever come see her.

I guess Mike talked to his sister last night, and she made mention that they were going to come by on Sunday. (Notice I said they..Mike's mom can never be without his sister) But for whatever reasons they have, they decided not to come by, but that they would try again for Tuesday.

Well, today came and went. Mike came home on break and I asked him to call his sister to see what was up, and she said that his mom went to get her hair done, but they would come over after. Nadda.

I am just so freaking pissed that Dylan gets to be around his grandmother 24/7, but she can't even come see this beautiful little girl. Of course I am upset that she doesn't see Matthew either, but you would think that she would want to see the baby while she is still so little and doing baby things. I really just don't get it. I continue to get more upset the longer this goes on. Mike is equally upset. He calls her probably 3x a week, and she never answers her phone, nor does she call him back after he leaves her message after message. Clearly she knows that he has called. I have been with her in the past while he has answered her phone, and she has checked her messages in front of me. She can't say she doesn't know how to use her cell phone.

She was a HUGE support to me while I was pregnant with Kate. She was there for all of those scary appointments, and she even stayed with me in the hospital for a few days. It was right after she left the hospital that things got weird. I don't know if the whole thing with Kate just spooked her or what. I tried to be as appreciative as I could that she was up there with me..I mean, under such circumstances as we were in, I made sure to let her know that she meant a lot to me for being there so I don't know what it could possibly be.

Now Dylan turned 3 last week, and has his party this weekend. I so don't want to go! I feel, why should we? When somebody point blankly refuses you in your life, why should you go to something where they expect YOU to be? I just don't get it. I just can't wrap my mind around this whole thing.

Anyways, that is all that was, just a vent. I needed to get that out.