Small update..

Be-bah is home.
Mil and sil ended up going early this afternoon up to Portland to get him, and he is at home resting comfortably.
The plan of action is that he rests this evening and all day tomorrow and then on Sunday him and my mil are driving down to Medford so his parents can visit with him, probably for the last time. They will stay overnight there, and drive back home on Monday.
All day Sunday while they are gone a group of our friends have offered to go clean the house for them, as hospice is sending over the bed on Monday afternoon, and they will need to set it up in the living room so that he has access to the kitchen, bathroom, etc.
There is alot to clean and they have to move alot of heavy furniture, not to mention all of the cats that live there, it would be too much for me to be in the way of it all, so we are going to keep Dylan all day Sunday so that my sil can be there with our friends and helping them without having to worry about keeping Dylan occupied and such. It is going to be a long day for them I am sure.
When my fil went up to Portland, his stomach was really bloated, and he was having a hard time breathing and eating. They thought it was just full of fluids, and that they would need to drain him somehow. He is actually bloated very little with fluids, but it is his body that is being taken over full of tumors. He has a very large one on his liver again, and in his diaphragm causing his breathing to be labored.
So he is on a ton of pain killers, liquid morphine being one of them. I just worry so much that he is not going to be in the right state of mind in the next coming days and take it upon himself to leave us. Please God, watch over him so that he doesn't make any rash decisions.
My mil is planning on working Wednesday and Thursday, and then she is taking the next couple of weeks off, to hopefully spend some much needed quality time, and if by chance he doesn't make it, she will have some time to get things in order.
I am just sooo worried I am not going to get to see him! I officially broke down tonight on the phone with my sil. I made her promise to call me no matter what time of day or night, and if I was at work I would leave just so I can be there. I just want to be able to say goodbye to him, and tell him that we love him. It is just getting so hard. I have so much going through my head right now..what is going to happen to my mil? I worry that she is going to have a heart attack once he passes..the stress is just oo much for her. Please continue to pray and send positive thoughts our way. We really appreciate all of the wonderful people in our lives, and are really blessed to have such great friends.
We love you guys.
H