So..Wednesday

Is when I am going to take Matthew over to see Be-bah, and hopefully get some pics. My sil said Wednesday so she can also bring Dylan. She has seen him alone like 3 times already, but whatever. I will take what I can get.
My inlaws arrived home late this afternoon, and it was as if they walked into a different house. They were very pleased with all of the work that everyone that was there did for them. Hospice is going to actually bring the bed tomorrow, and he should be all set. Be-bah has a drs appointment tomorrow for some more pain meds. =(. But I understand that he needs them, and they are what is helping him. I did see my mil today when I picked up Matthew. She is sooo worn looking. She told me that I need to see him pretty soon, as she said that he is yellow. Like really, really yellow, almost green. She told me that he is starting to look like shrek. She is trying to keep a bit of sanity herself. We had a tender chuckle over that. She told me that she has been taking Valium when she needs it, and that she will continue to do so if she finds she needs it. Hey, that is fine. I would rather her have help with dealing with this, then nothing at all, and have her in the hospital herself with a heart attack.
I guess my fil got to see all of his siblings, and of course his parents when they went down. Also there is talk of everyone coming up one more last time this coming weekend. The sad thing, the really sad thing is that NONE of my fil's children with his first wife made the effort to come and see him. They know how sick he is, he has tried to reach out to them in the past year to say, hey, I don't have much time..even though they got the tumor, lets see eachother please..and he has never got a reply.
These are going to be the people that are knocking on my mil's door after he is gone demanding his tools, and whatever else he had that meant to him, and demand that they deserve it. I 100% believe this is what is going to happen.
He doesn't have much in life, they aren't rich..they get support from the state with his disability checks so yeah..bring it on. I would love to be there for when they decide to make an effort after he is gone. Stuff like that just makes me sick.
I am going to go for the night..my laptop has been shipped off to HP again, so I will try to keep updating the best that I can. I am on Mike's computer, and well..you know how much I love it!
Oh, and me...just viral. The doc couldn't find anything seriously wrong with me vomiting for 3 days, and having this body ache..I knew it. I am off to work tomorrow as I need the moolah.
H